 
	November 2017
THE FIRST PARENTING WORKSHOP FOR MOTHERS OF CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS HELD IN THE ASSOCIATION "DLAN" ZENICA

TPO Foundation works on empowering marginalized  groups of society, pointing out their difficulties and needs in achieving equal  rights and opportunities in their community. Special groups of society  certainly represent families of children with special needs. Due to the  insufficient concern of the society for these marginalized groups in our  community, as well as the need to raise awareness of the problems and needs of  children and their mothers for a better way of life, TPO Foundation launched a  new set of parenting workshops entitled "Being a good enough parent" with the aim to psychosocially  strengthen mothers of children suffering from paralysis and hydrocephalus. Fourteen active mothers of the Association  "Dlan" in Zenica, on November 4, 2017, attended an educational  workshop moderated by an associate of the TPO Foundation, psychotherapist  Nermina Vehabovic-Rudez. The aim of the workshop was to strengthen the  mothers of children with special needs, control and reduce the daily stress they  face every day with a special emphasis on gender-based  violence in which girls and women suffer from disabilities as well as mothers  of ill children are exposed to various forms of discrimination and domestic  violence in the community in which they live.
		    
		    Being a parent is one of  the most demanding roles in a person's life.
		  
 Being a good parent, who will  raise a satisfied child, primarily means that we need to strengthen ourselves  at first, recognize our needs and feelings, think about our actions towards the  child, and gain information about the growth and development of children. The  fact is that mothers of severely ill children from birth have the need to  ignore all their life needs in order to always be available to the child.  Mothers of ill children in BiH are often much more than mothers. They are  educators, medical workers and teachers, despite all, most of them are  struggling with the prejudices and stereotypes that society sets. All this  often leads to a large amount of stress, and often to physical and mental  illness. The first workshop was completed through psychotherapeutic interviews,  sharing thoughts, experiences, practices and ways of handling with all the  difficulties that mothers carry on a daily basis. Discussion and teaching about  gender-based violence has helped the attendees to emotionally and  psychologically strengthen and understand that the guilt for the conditions and  illness in which the child lives is not theirs and that they have the same  right to protection and care as everyone else in the society. The conclusion of the  first workshop is that there is a great  need for workshops and discussions with mothers with the aim of their  psycho-social empowerment.
		    
		  

